When relationships last for long periods of time, it is not because the pieces two people bring together fit exactly together, but rather the pieces aren't the same so that they may be easily fused together. So don't be too close minded as to only look for a perfect Mr. or Mrs. Right when you are seeking someone to love. Look for someone who is willing to love you for who you are with your flaws and all, and someone that you know in your heart that you could love despite what flaws they may have as well. Reach for love with only one expectation, finding it.